You do not need to change other people; you can change your reaction to them.

你無須改變任何人;你可以改變你對人們的反應。

 

When you choose to feel good you are not dependent on other people acting in certain ways to make you feel good.

當你選擇感覺良好時,你就毋需依賴他人以特定方式的反應,來使你感覺良好。

 

Before you can attract people who will support, appreciate, and acknowledge you,

在你能吸引他人對你的支持、欣賞和感謝以前,

 

you must choose to do that for yourself.

你必須先選擇這麼做。

 

 

 

──歐林《喜悅之道》

 

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