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Conditional & Unconditional Love ∞The 9D Arcturian Council,

Channeled by Daniel Scranton

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
“問候。我們是大角星理事會。很高興與大家聯繫。

We have begun to understand humanity’s fascination with being seen and heard. You all want the best parts of yourselves to be presented to the world. You want to be seen for the person that you know you can be when you are at your best, and you want to express the things that you know will get you the most approval. This cycle of conditional love and approval gets started at a very young age.
我們已經開始了解人類對被看到和聽到的迷戀。你們都希望將自己最好的部分呈現給世界。當你處於最佳狀態時，想以你知道可以成為的人的身份被人看到，並且想表達你知道會得到最多認可的事情。這種有條件的愛和認可的循環在很小的時候就開始了。

Your parents were most likely stressed out, short on time and money, and if they could just get you to do what they thought they needed you to do, then they get to where they needed to go or get to sleep. So they would reward you for what they deemed to be good behavior and punish you for what they deemed to be bad behavior.
你的父母很可能壓力很大，時間和金錢都很短缺，如果他們能讓你做他們認為需要你做的事情，那麼他們就會到需要去或睡覺的地方。因此，他們會因認為的良好行為而獎勵你，並因他們認為不良的行為而懲罰你。

Many of you were sold the same story about getting Christmas presents or going to Heaven, and certainly you were punished as well at school for doing what came very natural to you at school. If you laughed, or spoke up, or if you ran around when you weren’t supposed to, you would get detention or even worse.
你們中許多人都被賣了同樣的關於獲得聖誕禮物或去天堂的故事，當然學校也因為做了對你來說很自然的事情而受到懲罰。如果你笑了或者說出來，或者在不應該的時候跑來跑去，你會被拘留甚至更糟。

You were set up to be people pleasers, and now you have the opportunity share with others a snapshot of your lives, but most are really only sharing the good stuff, the best moments. We understand it now, and yet we want to convince you that it’s so much more important to get that approval from within. It is so much more important to feel how you want to feel than to get those likes and positive comments.
你被設置為討人喜歡，現在你有機會與他人分享生活快照，但大多數人實際上只是分享美好的東西，最好的時刻。我們現在明白了，但我們想說服你從內部獲得批准更為重要。感受你想要的感受比獲得那些喜歡和積極的評論更重要。

You know what it feels like to be true to yourself and to not care what anyone thinks. You have those moments from time to time when you are not trying to be your best or look your best, when you can just relax and let it all hang out. When you can let yourself be honest about how you feel, even if it’s not a popular opinion that leads you to that feeling, you can let go of so much of what you’ve been holding onto and what you’ve been ashamed of.
你知道做真實的自己和不在乎他人想法是什麼感覺。當你不努力成為最好的、或看起來最好的時候，你有時會遇到這樣的時刻，你可以放鬆一下，讓一切都過去。當你可以讓自己誠實地表達感受時，即使不是流行的觀點導致你產生這種感覺，也可以放下很多一直堅持和感到羞恥的東西。

Now, we are not telling you this so that you can start sharing all of your worst feeling moments with the rest of the world. You don’t need to do that in order to evolve and expand your consciousness, but we do want you to seek that approval and that love from within you. We want you to feel unconditional love for yourselves, and we want you to not care what anyone else thinks of you. We also encourage you to share those moments of darkness that you experience with the people who are closest to you.
現在，我們不會告訴你這些，以便你可以開始與世界其他地方分享所有最糟糕的感受時刻。你不需要為了進化和擴展意識而這樣做，但我們確實希望你從內在尋求那種認可和愛。我們希望你能感受到對自己無條件的愛，我們希望你不要在意別人對你的看法。我們還鼓勵你與最親近的人分享所經歷的黑暗時刻。

We want you to give those in your life the opportunity to love you unconditionally and to set that example so that they feel comfortable sharing their darkest secrets, thoughts, and feelings with you. That’s what builds true intimacy between people, and you are rarely going to find that by only sharing what you think is conditionally lovable on the Internet.
我們希望你讓生活中的人有機會無條件地愛你並樹立榜樣，以便他們分享最黑暗的秘密、想法和感受時感到自在。 這就是建立人與人之間真正親密關係的原因，而你很少會通過僅在網路上分享認為有條件之愛的內容來發現這一點。

Therefore, we invite you to care less about what anyone else thinks about your posts and your videos and instead to care so very much about what’s going on inside of you. Be your own biggest fan. Be your own support team, and be the one who loves you unconditionally first so that you can give everyone else the opportunity to do the same.
因此，我們邀請你少關心別人對貼文和影片的看法，而是非常關心你內心的想法。 做自己最大的粉絲。 成為自己的支持團隊，首先成為無條件愛自己的人，這樣就可以讓其他人有機會做同樣的事情。

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
我們是大角星理事會，我們很高興與你聯繫。”

文章來源：https://danielscranton.com/

傳導：Daniel Scranton

翻譯：Amber