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Ashian-神聖的分離

Jennifer: Hello! I see we are back on this topic again. I can’t say that’s awfully comfortable for me.
Jennifer:你好！我看到我們又回到了這個主題。我不能說我對此感到很舒適。

Ashian: Greetings, dear heart, to you and to all. We will be as gentle as we can be on this subject, because we understand that it is a delicate yet painful life experience. But it is an increasingly common occurrence, so it is worthwhile spending time on a life experience that is often overlooked in spiritual teachings but is, nonetheless, an event that almost everyone will experience in one form or another.
Ashian:你好，親愛的所有人。在這個主題上我們會盡可能地溫和，因為我們明白這是一個脆弱又痛苦的人生體驗。但這在變得越來越常見，所以值得花時間來處理經常在精神教導中被忽視的一個人生體驗，但不管怎樣，幾乎每個人都會在某種形式中體驗它。

Moreover, the principles that we discuss here are relevant in many aspects of life, not just when a marriage is ending.
此外，我們在這裡談論的原則在許多生活面向中是有意義的，不只是當一個婚姻結束時才有用（譯註：管道前三個月在處理離婚。）

J: You make a good point: it’s very common, yet I don’t see many people discussing it. Then again, I haven’t looked.
J:你說的很好：這很常見，但我沒看到很多人在討論它。不過，我也沒去看。

A: Let’s explore this a little more. There are well-established ceremonies and rituals across the world to mark the coming together of a couple.  Whether these events are religious or secular, they are created to honour a union occurring within a community of people. That has power and potency.  It lends legitimacy, and welcomes in new rites, roles and responsibilities between the couple themselves, as well as within their community. It is a public moment of honouring and celebration, of hope and birthing a new beginning.
A:讓我們探索一下。有著歷史悠久的儀式和典禮來標誌一對夫妻走到了一起。無論這些事件是從屬於宗教的還是不是，它們被創造來榮耀一個結合。它有著力量和效力。它提供合法性，歡迎夫妻之間的新儀式、角色和職責。這是一個公開的榮耀和慶祝、希望和誕生一個新開始的時刻。

This is not so with separation, which often tends to be downplayed and kept quiet to minimise shame, regret, pain and anxiety, as well as the intrusion of others.
分離就不這樣，通常都是輕描淡寫，靜悄悄的，來減少羞恥、後悔、痛苦和焦慮以及別人的擾亂。

Yet separation is a natural and normal occurrence, and never more so than now, when so many karmic bonds are coming to an end in these ‘end times.’ That in itself is a cause for celebration; it is a success, not a failure. It is a freeing of both individuals from another chain that bound them.
但分離是一件自然的正常的事情，現在更是如此，當如此多的業力羈絆在這些“結束時間”完結。其本身就是一個值得慶祝的原因。它是一個成功，不是失敗。這是從捆綁他們的另一條鎖鏈中獲得自由。

J: Just to be clear: you’re not saying all marriage/union is a chain that binds, are you?
J: 我只想說：你不是在說所有的婚姻/結合都是一個捆綁的鎖鏈，對吧？

A: Excellent clarification ~ definitely not! We are saying that relationships that come about because the souls are clearing karma arise from a contract (a chain/a bind/an agreement) to learn a lesson together to help them both evolve.
A:很好的闡明，是的！我們是在說為了清理從一個合同（鎖鏈/捆綁/協議）中浮現的業力而走到一起的戀愛關係，以便一起學習一個課程，幫助他們兩人進化。

Dissolving karma is success, it is the knowing in your heart and soul that your agreement with this person has served it’s purpose; you have both graduated from this lesson!
溶解業力是成功，你的心和靈魂知道你與這個人的協議已經服務了它的目的；你們兩人都從這個課程畢業了。

Letting go of the social and familial shame that is often attached to separation is an important first step. For many, like it was for you, the shame of separating is the greatest hurdle to overcome. Your union is approved and applauded.  Your success in bringing that union to its highest expression ~ where your karma is complete ~ has been subverted and mislabeled as shameful, a movement from public approval to private grief. But really, the truth is that it is also a public moment of honouring and celebration, of hope, and of birthing a new beginning.
放下通常附加在分離之上的社會和家庭羞恥是重要的第一步。對許多人來說，比如你，分離的羞恥是最大的障礙。你們的結合被讚同和讚美。你成功把這個結合帶向它最高的表達~你的業力完結~被顛覆和錯誤標籤為羞恥，從大家讚美變成私人悲痛。但事實上，這也是一個榮耀、慶祝、希望、帶來一個新開始的公共時刻。

We wish to suggest that the pathway through this painful time is as sacred as the process of marriage, union, unity. Religious institutions have been corrupted to force unhappy marriages to last long beyond their sell-by date, in order to keep the vibration on the planet low and heavy.
我們希望提議，通過這個痛苦時刻的道路跟結婚、結合、統一的過程一樣神聖。宗教已經腐敗去迫使不幸福的婚姻持續超出它們的保質期，以便保持地球上的振動低迷和沈重。

They have not provided you with tools to make this separation a conscious, loving act of release and surrender; honouring and celebrating what was and birthing a new beginning. If this were the case, if such tools existed, there would be space for grief to be honoured, pain to be felt and released, and gifts to be recognised.  Everyone intimately involved, from children to close family, would emerge more healed and whole.
它們並沒有提供你工具去使得這個分離成為一個有意識的有愛的釋放和臣服行為。榮耀並慶祝所是，誕生一個新的開始。如果是這樣，如果這樣的工具存在，就會有空間來榮耀悲傷，感受並釋放痛苦，認識到禮物。每個人都涉及其中，從孩子到親密的家人，會被更多療癒和變得更加完整。

So, we wish to present some ideas for you to consider when you are in the process of separation. These are not rules, they are suggestions to inspire you to find ways that work for you and your circumstances:
所以，我們希望提出一些想法讓你沉思，當你處於分離的進程中。這些並不是規則，它們是建議來啟發你去找到為你和你的情況奏效的方式：

Reclaim your divine right to choose;
拿回你可以做出選擇的神聖權力；

Reclaim your divine right to create the sacred in every moment of life, not just the good moments;
拿回你在生活的時時刻刻中創造神聖的神聖權力，不只是美好的時光；

Reclaim your divine right to sovereignty, creativity, and emotional expression.
拿回你主權、創造性、情感表達的神聖權力。

Here we go…
讓我們開始...

Remember, it only takes one person to perform these rituals, but they can be done in a group. It is the intent that is crucial: the intent to honour and heal, to create grace and ease for everyone. You are inviting the highest expression of the Divine to manifest in your separation, which allows for miracles and magic to manifest for all parties.
記住，只需要一個人來進行這些儀式，但他們可以一起做。意圖是關鍵：意圖去榮耀和療癒，去為每個人創造優雅和輕盈。你在邀請最高的神聖表達體現到你的分離中，這會讓奇蹟和魔法為雙方顯化。

Bless the Relationship
祝福戀愛關係

This is a wonderful first step. Blessing the past and what has been shared elevates the life experiences gained to a higher vibration. It honours all that has happened as an expression of the Soul on its journey back towards full self understanding and integration within the Divine. Blessings create grace and ease, in every circumstance and in some very surprising ways, when the blessing is done with a purity of heart and mind, with an intention to honour all that has transpired.
這是奇妙的第一步。祝福過去和共享的將人生體驗提升到更高振動的東西。榮耀所有發生的東西，作為靈魂在朝向完全的自我理解並整合的旅程中的一個表達。祝福會創造優雅和輕盈，在每個情況中，在一些非常驚人的方式中，當祝福伴隨著心和頭腦的純潔做出，伴隨著榮耀所有發生之事的意圖做出。

Cut the Cords
切斷線

Imagine every relationship is held together with an agreement ~ an agreement that ‘you are my boyfriend/girlfriend/partner/spouse. The lived experiences of that agreement create cords, ties, patterns of behaviour, needs and aversions; by cutting the cords (after they have been blessed) you allow for all that no longer serves the higher good of all parties to dissolve.
想像每個戀愛關係是伴隨著一個協議走到一起的~你是我的男友/女友/伴侶/配偶的協議。那些協議的體驗創造了線、行為模式、需求和厭惡；通過切斷線（在它們被祝福後）你會讓不再服務於雙方的一切被溶解。

When relationships are based on karmic learning (which is usually re-balancing a negative misunderstanding of a positive truth) there are a lot of emotional ropes that bind you together. Imagine these cords, ropes, threads, chains being dissolved.
當戀愛關係基於業力課程（通常是重新平衡一個對積極真理的消極誤解）有著很多情感的繩子將你們綁在一起。想像這些線、繩子、鎖鏈被溶解。

If you feel you are unable to do this yourself, ask a beloved angel, Ascended Master, or the Divine Mother/Father to assist you with this process. See the cords dissolve and the light flowing. This process can be a once-off, but it is more likely to be a process that will require several repetitions.
如果你感到你無法自己去做這些，請求一個親愛的天使、揚昇大師或者神聖的父母來協助你。看到線溶解，光流動。這個進程可以是一次就成功的，但很有可能是一個需要重複幾次的過程。

Explain to the Higher Self
向更高自我解釋

In your quiet time, whether it’s prayer, meditation, walking, or anything you do to connect more deeply, ask your angels/guides/the Divine Mother/Father to create a meeting with your partner’s Higher Self. You will know when it happens; in that conversation you may explain everything that you wish to say ~ both the good and the less good ~ you can fully explain yourself (if you feel you aren’t able to do so at the human level) and ask for help in creating a separation that is as kind and loving as possible.
在安靜的時刻，無論是祈禱、冥想、散步還是任何東西來進行更深刻的連接，請求你的天使/指導/神聖的父母創造一個與你伴侶的更高自我的見面。當它發生，你會知道；在那個交談中，你可以解釋你希望述說的一切~好的和不那麼好的~你可以完全解釋自己（如果你感到你無法在人類層面這麼做）請求幫助來創造一個盡可能友善和有愛的分離。

You can ask for feedback from your partner’s Higher Self. This can be one of the most powerfully transformative of rituals, if approached with an open heart and a willingness to listen and share.
你可以請求來自你伴侶更高自我的一個反饋。這可以是一個非常強大的儀式轉變，如果伴隨著敞開的心和聆聽與分享的意願去進行。

Use Divine Energy
使用神聖的能量

The process of separating is painful, and it can lead to anger erupting to cover the pain, especially if one partner is not ready to end the relationship. Remembering to send love through the violet flame can heal much of the anger that erupts through the process of separating. Being aware enough of your own emotions so that you are not lost in fighting or pain, but are capable of invoking the violet flame, is a sign that you are in your mastery.
分離的過程是痛苦的，會導致發怒來覆蓋痛苦，尤其當一方沒有準備好結束戀愛關係。記得通過紫羅蘭火焰發送愛可以療癒分離進程中爆發的很多憤怒。能夠充分意識到自己的情感，這樣你不會迷失於吵架或痛苦，還能夠調用紫羅蘭火焰，是一個跡象，你處於你的精通之中。

Other flames, or energies, that are useful include the green flame of healing and the pink flame of peace. That Divine energy, that Divine power to create change through alchemy, is there for you to access; as you evolve in your mastery, in knowing and claiming that you are a master, it will become clear and evident to you that these powers are yours to use, to create outcomes that align to the highest good of all.
其它的火焰或能量，也是有用的，包括綠色的療癒火焰，粉色的平和火焰。通過煉金術創造改變的那個神聖能量、力量，可以任你獲取；隨著發展你的精通，知曉並宣稱你是一個大師，會變得很明顯，這些力量可以任你使用，去創造與一切最高良善對齊的結果。

Blessings
 

[J: Erm….You mentioned that already!]
【J: 嗯...你已經說過了】
 

A: At least you read what we channel! Yes, blessing is such an expansive, extensive topic that we could discuss it forever and still not know its full power. Here we wish to focus not on blessing the past experience of the relationship, but the everyday acts and interactions of separating out two lives.
A:至少你在閱讀我們所傳導的東西！是的，祝福是一個廣闊的話題，我們可以永遠討論它，但依舊不知道它的全部力量。我們這裡並不希望專注於祝福過去的戀愛體驗，而是分離成兩個生活後的每日行為與交互。

Bless the paperwork, bless the tears that arise, bless the fears, bless the process of finding new accommodations…. all the acts associated with the separation (indeed any act ever performed) are improved, elevated, by blessing them. Blessing brings everything into closer alignment with the highest good of all, lifting them above the ideas, aspirations and limitations of the ego.
祝福文書工作，祝福淚水，祝福恐懼，祝福尋找新住所的過程。與分離有關的行為都會通過祝福它們而被改善、提升。祝福會帶一切更加與一切的最高良善對齊，提升它們超越小我的想法、渴望和局限。

J: Thanks Ashian, I’m glad you’re sharing these, as they’re all techniques that were shared with me, and which I think really helped. There is one other technique that a friend shared with me which I found really helpful, and actually quite miraculous.
J: 謝謝你，我很高興你分享了這些東西，因為它們都是你與我分享的技巧，我認為真的很有用。還有一個是一位朋友分享給我的技巧，我發現也很有用，真的很神奇。

Bless the Ring
祝福戒指
 

As I was married, I had a ring, but I believe rings were ~ like so many aspects of life, from music and food to buildings and technology ~ spellcast. So I cleared all the negative energy from the ring, leaving only the love. Here’s the miraculous part: it went from dull to shiny instantly. It was a different colour to my engagement ring before I did the blessing (choose your own words and your Higher Self will guide you) and after the blessing, it was the exact same colour as my engagement ring.
就像我已經結婚了，我有一枚戒指，但我相信戒指~就像很多生活面向，從音樂和食物到建築和科技~是有魔力的。所以我清理戒指中的所有負面能量，只留下愛。以下是神奇的部分：它從陰沉瞬間變成閃亮。它跟之前相比完全是兩個顏色（選擇你自己的祝福語，你的更高自我會指引你。）

A: You are all Divine. You are here to rediscover and reclaim your divinity, your innate power. There are signs of this everywhere, and as you awaken, these signs are clearer and so abundant that you will wonder how you missed them, how you ever doubted.
A:你們都是神聖的。你是來重新發現和拿回你的神性、固有力量的。這個跡像到處都是，隨著你甦醒，這些跡象會越來越清晰和豐富，你會驚訝於你怎麼會錯過它們，怎麼會懷疑它們。

Claim your divinity. Even if you think you are only pretending, that’s fine. Fake it until you make it!
宣稱你的神性。即使你認為你只是在假裝，沒事。假裝直到你做到!

J: You’re a regular hack today with all the colloquialisms!
J:用俗話講你今天就是一個駭客!

A: This can be a heavy subject, but our goal is bring it into the light, to allow the divinity inherent in all of life’s moments to transform even the saddest moments, so that the sacred, transcendent aspects of life are honoured.
A:這可以是一個沉重的話題，但我們的目標是把它帶到光中，讓處於所有生活時刻的神性轉化即使最悲傷的時刻，這樣生活神聖超然的面向會被榮耀。

J: Thanks Ashian, I really appreciate it.
J: 謝謝你，我真的很感謝。

文章來源：https://eraoflight.com/2022/02/02/ashian-sacred-separation/

傳導：Jennifer

翻譯：NickChan