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CONDITIONAL & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ∞THE 9D ARCTURIAN COUNCIL,

CHANNELED BY DANIEL SCRANTON

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
“問候。我們是大角星委員會。我們很高興與大家保持聯繫。

We have begun to understand humanity’s fascination with being seen and heard. You all want the best parts of yourselves to be presented to the world. You want to be seen for the person that you know you can be when you are at your best, and you want to express the things that you know will get you the most approval. This cycle of conditional love and approval gets started at a very young age.
我們已經開始理解人類對被看見和被聽到的迷戀。你們都希望將自己最好的部分呈現給全世界。你想在自己處於最佳狀態時被認識的人看見，並且想要表達你所認識的東西中、最獲得你認可的部分。這個有條件的愛與認同的循環，從很小的時候就開始了。

Your parents were most likely stressed out, short on time and money, and if they could just get you to do what they thought they needed you to do, then they get to where they needed to go or get to sleep. So they would reward you for what they deemed to be good behavior and punish you for what they deemed to be bad behavior.
你的父母很可能會感到壓力大、時間和金錢不足，如果他們能讓你去做他們認為你需要做的事情，那麼他們就會到達"需要去的地方"或"睡覺的地方" (註：這裡指的，應該是我們從小就生活在父母的要求、或他們的價值觀底下，可能像是打罵教育或類似控制，告訴我們什麼該做、什麼不該做，並得到相應的"教訓")。因此，他們會獎勵你、他們認為良好的行為，並懲罰你、他們認為的不良行為。

Many of you were sold the same story about getting Christmas presents or going to Heaven, and certainly you were punished as well at school for doing what came very natural to you at school. If you laughed, or spoke up, or if you ran around when you weren’t supposed to, you would get detention or even worse.
你們中的許多人都被賣掉了有關獲得聖誕節禮物或去天堂的故事，當然，你在學校也因做得很自然而受到懲罰。如果你大笑或大聲說話，或者在你不應該去的地方四處亂跑，你將被拘留，甚至更糟。

You were set up to be people pleasers, and now you have the opportunity share with others a snapshot of your lives, but most are really only sharing the good stuff, the best moments. We understand it now, and yet we want to convince you that it’s so much more important to get that approval from within. It is so much more important to feel how you want to feel than to get those likes and positive comments.
你被設置為討人喜歡的人，現在你有機會與他人分享你的生活快照，但實際上大多數人只是分享美好的事物，最美好的時光 (註：比如FB或IG，大家都習慣上放自己最美好的模樣，分享最美好的時光，但這也可能造成一種社交壓力，如果我們太過在乎他人的目光、遠勝於自己的感受或做自己)。我們已經了解了這一點，但是我們想說服你，獲得內在的認可非常重要。感受自己想要的感覺，比獲得那些喜歡和正面評論要重要得多。
 

You know what it feels like to be true to yourself and to not care what anyone thinks. You have those moments from time to time when you are not trying to be your best or look your best, when you can just relax and let it all hang out. When you can let yourself be honest about how you feel, even if it’s not a popular opinion that leads you to that feeling, you can let go of so much of what you’ve been holding onto and what you’ve been ashamed of.
你知道對自己真實而對任何人的想法都不在乎的感覺。當你不放鬆自己或讓自己看起來最好時，你會時不時地放鬆一下，讓一切都閒逛。當你可以誠實地說自己的感受時，即使不是引起你這種感覺的流行觀點，你也可以放下一直以來持有的和羞愧的內容。

Now, we are not telling you this so that you can start sharing all of your worst feeling moments with the rest of the world. You don’t need to do that in order to evolve and expand your consciousness, but we do want you to seek that approval and that love from within you. We want you to feel unconditional love for yourselves, and we want you to not care what anyone else thinks of you. We also encourage you to share those moments of darkness that you experience with the people who are closest to you.
現在，我們不會告訴你這些信息，以便你可以與世界其他地方分享所有最糟糕的時刻。你不需要這樣做即可發展和擴大意識，但我們希望你尋求內在的認可和愛。我們希望你對自己感到無條件的愛，我們希望你不在乎別人對你的看法。我們也鼓勵你與最接近的人分享所經歷的黑暗時刻。

We want you to give those in your life the opportunity to love you unconditionally and to set that example so that they feel comfortable sharing their darkest secrets, thoughts, and feelings with you.
我們希望你讓生活中的人有機會無條件地愛你，並樹立榜樣，使他們與你分享最暗的秘密、想法和感受時覺得安全。

That’s what builds true intimacy between people, and you are rarely going to find that by only sharing what you think is conditionally lovable on the Internet.

這就是在人與人之間建立真正的親密關係的原因，而僅通過分享你認為在網路上有條件的可愛事物時，你幾乎不會發現這一點。

Therefore, we invite you to care less about what anyone else thinks about your posts and your videos and instead to care so very much about what’s going on inside of you.
因此，我們邀請你不要在意別人對你的發文和影像的看法，而應該在意你內在的情況。

Be your own biggest fan.

成為自己最大的粉絲。

Be your own support team, and be the one who loves you unconditionally first so that you can give everyone else the opportunity to do the same.

成為你自己的支持團隊，並且首先成為無條件愛你的人，這樣你就可以給其他所有人提供這樣做的機會。

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
我們是大角星委員會，我們很高興與你建立聯繫。”

文章來源  https://danielscranton.com/

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