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加百利-你的界線

2022年4月18日

As you evolve, your boundaries evolve, too. When you are at the beginning of your evolutionary journey, you may be living such a base existence that you are only interested in what you can get from others. You seek to fill yourself up from externals because you think that is the only way you can assure your own survival. Eventually you realize you cannot thrive by only breathing in.
隨著你進化，你的界線也會發展。當你處於進化之旅的開端，你也許只擁有最基本的存在，也就是只對你能從別人那裡得到的東西感興趣。你尋求用外在的東西填補自己，因為你認為這是唯一能夠保障自己生存的方式。最終你意識到你無法只靠吸氣茁壯成長。

Then, as you begin to awaken, you realize you wish to serve others, so you may over give, not allowing yourself to receive. You may swing wildly from one end of the spectrum to the other. You may feel that you can only feel good about yourself by giving so you give more and more. While your intentions are always noble, that will always ultimately lead to exhaustion. Eventually you realize you cannot thrive by only breathing out.
然後，當你開始甦醒，你意識到你希望服務別人，所以你可能過度付出，不讓自己接收。你可能會在光譜的兩端劇烈波動。你可能感到你只能通過付出感覺自我良好，所以你付出地越來越多。雖然你的意圖總是高尚的，這總是會導向精疲力竭。最終你會意識到你無法靠只是呼氣茁壯成長。

As you realize you were an over giver, you might try to find a point of balance by trying to create set lines in concrete, thinking that is the healthiest ways to preserve yourself and your energy. But eventually you realize that while those lines may serve you well in some cases, they don’t apply to all instances. And you may find yourself feeling isolated and constrained by your self imposed restrictions.
當你意識到你是一個過度的付出者，你可能會試圖找到一個平衡的點，通過創造牢固的界線，認為這是最健康的方式來保護自己和你的能量。但最終你會意識到雖然那些界線在一些情況中會很好地服務你，它們並不適用於所有情況。你可能會發現自己被自我強加的局限限制和隔絕。

And finally, you arrive at the place where you realize that there are times where the flow supports you in giving, and other times when the flow supports you in receiving. You will come to accept that there are times of intensity where others might require more help, or times of intensity that require you to move into greater self care. You will also have the wisdom to know when it is time to step in and times to step back and allow others the chance to discover their own divine capability, holding a space of safety and encouragement for them to do so.
最終，你會意識到有時候流動會支持你付出，其它時候流動會支持你接收。你會接納在強烈的時期，其他人可能需要更多的幫助，或者需要你進入更大的自我關懷。你也會有智慧去知道什麼時候是去步入的時候，什麼時候是退回的時候並給予別人機會去發現自己神聖的能力，保持一個安全和鼓勵的空間讓他們這麼去做。

We realize all of this can seem confusing at times. You are looking for a hard, fast rule that applies always. But when the flow is always moving, and people are taking huge steps forward, or sometimes needing to take steps backwards in order to hit a bottom that is required in order to redirect them, it can be difficult to know what to do.
我們意識到這一切有時候會看似令人困惑。你在尋找一個硬性的規則，能夠總是適用的。但流動總是在移動，人們在邁出巨大的前進步伐或有時候需要後退幾步，以便觸底來重新定向自己，這會很難去知道該怎麼做。

And this is why we are here to tell you there is one general rule of thumb you can always use with your boundaries, and that is to seek the solutions that support the empowerment of everyone involved.
所以我們前來告訴你，有著一個基本的原則你可以總是應用於你的界線，那就是尋找支持授權每一個涉及之人的解決方案。

Constantly rescuing another impedes their growth. Always telling another what to do, rather than supporting them to connect with their own wisdom and capability, sends a message that you don’t think they are capable of running their own lives. People grow and gain confidence by making their own decisions and learning from the feedback those actions provide.
不斷地拯救另一個人會阻礙他們的成長。總是告訴另一個人該怎麼做，而不是支持他們與自己的智慧和能力連接，就是在大聲述說你認為他們沒能力運營自己的生活。人類會通過做出自己的決定並從那些行為提供的反饋中學習來獲得成長和信心。

If someone is about to fall over and truly do harm to themselves, of course the right thing to do is to catch them before they fall. But we highly recommend you do so in a way that is always focused on the goal of them standing on their own again. This is no different than teaching a child how to walk.
如果有人要摔倒了，真的會傷害自己，當然正確的事情就是抓住他們。但我們高度建議去在“總是專注於讓他們能夠靠自己站起來”這樣的方式中去做。這就像教導一個孩子如何走路一樣。

Boundaries are not about keeping people out, they are about finding a safe space of connection that honours the growth and well-being of everyone involved. This includes choosing to honour your own safe and supportive environment, as the foundation that allows you to make wise and loving choices for all. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
界線不是關於拒他人於千里之外，而是關於找到一個安全的連接空間，榮耀每個涉及之人的成長和福祉。這包括選擇榮耀你自己的安全和支持性的環境，作為能夠讓你做出明智的有愛的選擇的基礎，為了所有人。

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翻譯：NickChan