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造物能量-你的自我孤立還舒服嗎?

Dear Ones,
親愛的，

Even though many of you are concerned about your self-isolation, you also crave it. For you are used to being a social creature – attending parties, joining or creating family gatherings, your work-a-day world. Yet, you are enjoying your alone time, something you find difficult to admit even to yourself.
即使你們許多人擔憂自己的自我孤立，但你也渴望它。因為你曾經是一個社會生物---參加聚會，加入或創造家庭聚會，朝九晚五的生活。但，你享受你的獨處時間，你難以承認這一點，即使對自己。

Such is so because of your 3D social needs. How could you learn your 3D shoulds and have tos if you were not trained in various social situations? In 3D, you so adjusted to certain behaviors and needs that you ignored yourself, your ability to be by yourself. Your popularity depended on friends and social interactions. As a result, you learned how to dress, what to say, how to be the life of the party, or at least, an accepted participant.
這是因為你的3D社會需求。如果你沒有在各種澀會情況中被訓練，你如何學習3D的應該和必須條款？在3D，你如此習慣於某些行為和需求，以至於忽視了自己以及做自己的能力。你的受歡迎程度取決於朋友和社會交互。因此，你學會瞭如何打扮，說話，聚會，至少，如何成為一個被接納的參與者。

But most of you did not learn how to be comfortable with yourself without the entertainment or social interactions indicating you were an accepted part of a 3D group. Such is what you are experiencing now. Some of you with fear or angst. Others with great joy . Being with yourself without expected interactions is a new experience for most.
但你們大多數人沒有學會如何對自己感到舒適，不帶娛樂或社會交互來表明你是一個被接受的3D團體的一份子。這就是你正在體驗的。你們一些人害怕或焦慮。其他人有著巨大的喜悅。與自己同在而沒有期望的交互對大多數人來說是一個新的體驗。

Do not berate yourself if such isolation is a difficult adjustment for you. Nor do you need to berate others who are finding the same.
如果這樣的孤立對你來說是一個艱難的調整，不要責備自己。你也不需要責備同樣這麼認為的其他人。

Learning to love yourself includes remembering that you are the life of your own party – that others can participate but not direct your party. That is, others can participate at your directive. You are the host, planner, and key party participant forevermore.
學習愛自己，包括記住你是自己聚會的主心骨---其他人可以參與但不能指揮你的聚會。也就是，別人可以在你的指揮下參與。你是主人、規劃人、關鍵的聚會參與者。

A concept so new it is a bit frightening for most. For you proved your 3D social standing by providing a list of friends you told others about. Friends important enough to you that you would dress, act, speak or do the group thought or action of the moment. Group thoughts most often generated by one or two key people. You might even have found yourself doing or saying something that was not you but expected in that group setting.
一個如此新穎的概念，對大多數人來說有點嚇人。因為你通過展示朋友的列表來證明你的3D社會地位。對你來說重要的朋友，你會按照集體思想或行為來打扮、行為和說話。集體思想通常由一個或兩個關鍵人物生成。

In some 3D groups, you might have acted one way and differently in another group. Or you may have honed your group skills to behave much the same in all groups. Even so, in 3D, you made certain your words and actions aligned with the group setting.
在一些3D團體中你可能在一種方式中行為，在其它團體你可能在不同的方式中行為。或者你可能已經磨練了你的團體技能在所有團體中差不多一樣地行為。即便如此，在3D中，你做出特定的話語和行為來與團體設定對齊。

You might have sounded or acted differently in a family setting than was true at work or an adult party. Persona after persona, you needed to remember, so the settings did not bleed into one another. As an infant, those delineations were not yet formed , so you cried when you were hungry and laughed when you felt like it. It is only after you were socialized that you learned to function differently in different situations. Never quit allowing yourself to be you throughout your day.
你可能在家庭設定中的說話與行為方式與工作和聚會中的不一樣。一個接一個的面具，你需要記住，這樣設定不會與另一個混合。作為一個嬰兒，這些東西還未形成，所以當你飢餓你就哭泣，當你高興你就笑。只有在你社會化後，你學會了在不同的情況中不一樣地運行。永遠不要放棄做自己。

First, the number of children you thought of as friends became important. Then, the number of people attracted to you was paramount as a teen-ager. And that 3D need evolved until you lost yourself in the scramble to be accepted by others.
首先，你認為是朋友的孩子數量變得重要。然後，被你吸引的青少年數量變得重要。那個3D需求不斷發展，直到你在爭求他人的接納中迷失。

So it is this current isolation is difficult for many. Learning to be content with your own company is a new concept many are fighting against. They are counting the days until they can return to the social circle of yesterday. Not because they need others to exist, but because they are uncomfortable with themselves.
所以當前的孤立對許多人來說很難。學習對自己的陪伴感到滿足是許多人正在努力學習的新概念。他們在數著日子，直到他們可以返回昨日的社交圈。不是因為他們需要別人的存在，而是因為他們對自己感到不舒服。

One by one, you forerunners will learn the dramatic beauty of your inner thoughts and actions. You no longer feel the need to please others at the risk of losing or ignoring you. You are strong enough and wise enough to be by yourself. And when or if you return to social interactions, it will be on a different level. You might enjoy new social interactions or be bored. But that joy or boredom will be on your terms instead of reacting, as indicated by the group leader.
一個接一個，你們先驅會學會你內在思想和行為的驚人美麗。你不再感到需要去取悅他人而失去或忽視了自己。你足夠強大和明智來做自己。當或者如果你返回社會交互，它會在一個不同的層面。你可能享受新的社會交互或感到無聊。但那個喜悅或無聊會是你話語，而不是反應。

This is a new world, and you are a new being. Something you are discovering day-by-day.
這是一個新的世界，你是一個新的存在。你正在每天發現這一點。

Those of you forerunners who shifted from needing to be with others to the joys of knowing yourself hav

e completed a large lesson many are just beginning to experience.
你們那些從需要與他人在一起轉變到認識自己而感到喜悅之人（先驅）已經完成了許多人剛剛開始的一個巨大課程。

Know thyself is the order of the day – a concept COVID has not only allowed but encouraged. So it is each step of your transition journey is pulling you further and further from your 3D center – initially with a great deal of pain that has decreased with each step forward.
認識自己是今天的主題。所以你轉變之旅的每一步都在拉你更進一步遠離3D中心---一開始會有巨大的痛苦，隨著每一步的邁出會漸漸減少。

You are indeed a new being with new needs and directions. So be it. Amen.
你確實是一個新的存在，伴隨著新的需求和方向。就是如此。

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/.../is-your.../

傳導：Brenda Hoffman

翻譯：NickChan