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Healthy Boundaries | Archangel Gabriel via Shelley Young

August 31, 2022, trinityesoterics.com

As empaths and sensitives, many of you naturally have profound compassion for others, including those who have hurt you. This is a wonderful trait, but your compassion for those who have hurt you should not exceed your compassion for yourself.
作為移情者和敏感者，你們中許多人自然而然地對他人懷有深切的同情，包括那些傷害過你的人。這是一個很棒的特質，但是你對那些傷害你的人的同情不應該超過你對自己的同情。

You can understand that a person hurt you due to unhealed aspects they may have. This is wise, because it allows you to forgive, but you must also know that until they prioritize healing, they are likely to do it again.
你可以理解一個人可能因為他們有未療癒的面向而傷害了你。這是明智的，因為它可以讓你寬恕，但你也必須知道，在他們療癒之前很可能會再次這樣做(做出傷害行為)。

This is not to say that you can’t have love and compassion for them. Far from it! It simply means you may wish to rethink giving them VIP access until they are able to treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
這並不是說你不能對他們抱有愛和同情心。 離得很遠！ 這只是意味著你可能希望重新考慮給予他們的 VIP 訪問權限，直到他們能夠以你應得的愛和尊重對待你。

Cause and effect is not punishment; it is a natural outcome. It fosters accountability, and ultimately facilitates change and evolution. Allowing someone to continue to show up as such a lesser version of themselves perpetuates painful cycles, and doesn’t support the growth and expansion of anyone involved.
因果不是懲罰； 這是一個自然的結果。 它促進了問責制，最終促進了變革和演變。允許某人繼續以這樣一個較小版本的自己出現會使痛苦的循環永久存在，並且不支持任何相關人員的成長和擴張。

Healthy boundaries, when created from a wise and conscious space, will always find a connection point that supports the respect, safety, and empowerment of all, and that is very much in line with what your empathic heart truly desires.
當從一個明智和有意識的空間創建健康的界限時，總會找到一個連接點，支持所有人的尊重、安全和賦權，這非常符合你的同理心真正渴望的東西。

文章來源：https://tinyurl.com/36ytxjyu
https://voyagesoflight.blogspot.com/2022/09/healthy-boundaries-archangel-gabriel.html

傳導：Shelley Young

翻譯：Amber