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Why Most Romantic Relationships Don’t Last ∞The 9D Arcturian Council,

Channeled by Daniel Scranton

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
“你好。我們是大角星委員會。我們很高興與大家保持聯繫。

We are giving ourselves everything that we need in order to be the best versions of ourselves for all of you and all of the other beings that we are helping in this universe of ours. We do not hold back when it comes to giving ourselves the love and compassion that we enjoy receiving so much from others. One of the greatest secrets that you are not taught in schools or in religions is that if you want others to treat you a certain way, then you must first treat yourselves the way that you want to be treated.
我們正在提供自己所需的一切，以使自己成為所有人以及我們在我們這個宇宙中正在幫助的所有其他存有的最佳版本。在給予自己喜歡和接受別人如此多的愛和同情心方面，我們不會退縮。在學校或宗教中沒有教給你的最大秘密之一就是，如果你想讓別人以某種方式對待你，那麼首先你必須以自己想要的方式對待自己。

This is the golden rule, part two that we are talking about. Yes, you want to treat others the way you would love to be treated, but you also have to treat yourself the way you want others to treat you. The universe is a gigantic mirror, and it always reveals to you what’s going on inside of you, rather than what you want the world to think or see. Whatever you want others to think and say about you, please think those thoughts and say those things to yourselves. Tell the universe, and show the universe, what you want to see reflected back to you from your fellow humans.
這是黃金法則，我們正在談論的第二部分。是的，你想像對待他人一樣對待他人，但是你還必須像對待他人一樣對待自己。宇宙是一面巨大的鏡子，它總是向你揭示內部的事物，而不是你希望世界思考或看到的事物。無論你希望別人對你進行思考和說什麼，請思考這些想法並向自己說這些話。告訴宇宙，並向宇宙展示，你希望看到的事物從你的同伴身上反射回來。

You have so much more to give others when you first feel whole and complete in yourselves. This is the key reason why most relationships that are romantic in nature do not work out or do not last until death do you part. It is because at least one of the individuals in the relationship is looking to the other to give them something that they’ve never been able to give themselves. And at first, it is easy for the other person to do that, but eventually, they will get caught up in other aspects of life and forget to give their partner what the partner needs and wants. And that is usually when the relationship fizzles out.
當你第一次感到自己完整時，你還有很多東西可以給別人。這就是為什麼大多數本質上浪漫的關係無法解決或直到死亡分開之前不會持續的關鍵原因。這是因為戀愛關係中的至少一個人希望對方給他們一些他們從未能夠給予自己的東西。首先，其他人很容易做到這一點，但最終，他們會陷入生活的其他方面，而忘了向伴侶提供伴侶需要和想要的東西。那通常是當這種關係消失時。

But if you make the way you relate to yourself a priority, then there is no end to the amount of love, praise, and adoration you can receive from your fellow humans. This is something we would love to see being taught in your public school systems, but sadly, it is not even spoken about in the curriculum. And most of you have to wait until you are adults to realize what has been missing from your lives for decades. We are here to give you permission to give yourselves everything that you want and need from your fellow humans, and let everyone else off the hook, for now. Just trust that they will start to reflect to you that self-love that you will dedicate yourselves to from this point forward in your lives.
但是，如果你將與自己的關係方式放在首位，那麼你可以從同胞那裡得到的愛、讚美和崇拜就無止境了。這是我們希望看到的在你們的學校系統中教授的東西，但可悲的是，它甚至在課程中都沒有提及。而且大多數人都必須等到成年後才能意識到數十年來生活中缺少的一切。我們在這裡授予你許可，允許你將自己想要和需要的一切都交給人類，並讓其他所有人暫時擺脫。相信他們會開始向你反映這種自我愛心，從此刻起，你將奉獻給自己。

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
我們是大角星委員會，我們很高興與你建立聯繫。”

文章來源：https://danielscranton.com/
傳導：Daniel Scranton
翻譯：Amber