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造物能量-失去友誼

Dear Ones,
親愛的，

You are discovering you do not react as you have in the past. Another difference you have perhaps yet to note is you are becoming more self-sufficient and courageous.
你在發現你不再像過去那樣起反應。另一個你可能還未注意到的不同就是你變得更加自給自足和勇敢。

Perhaps you are saying, “No,” as others try to have you meet their needs. Perhaps you are not bothering with former niceties. Or perhaps you are no longer interested in areas that used to interest you. It does not matter how you display your independence and courage, for the end-product is the same for all – the freedom to be.
也許你在說“不”，隨著他人試圖讓你去滿足他們的需求。也許你不再對之前的拘泥細節感到困擾。或者你不再對之前令你感興趣的領域感興趣。你如何展示自己的自立和勇氣不重要，因為最終產品都是一樣的---成為的自由。

This first holiday season of freedom is likely confusing. For many of you are questioning your former and current actions, as well as the actions of others. You are deciding which, if any, of your holiday traditions hold enough interest for you to continue. At the same time, others are pressuring you to be who you used to be.
這個第一個自由的節日季節很可能令人困惑。因為許多人在質疑自己之前和當前的行為，以及他人的行為。你在確定哪一個，如果有的話，節日傳統讓你足夠感興趣繼續下去。與此同時，其他人在給你加壓去成為你曾經的所是。

Even though this is not an easy time, you have prepared for years, perhaps decades. Part of you is fighting with yourself, and another part is fighting against the traditions that now mean little to you. So it continues with the December energies encouraging you to be you in all your glory.
即使這不是一個輕鬆的時間，你已經準備了很多年，也許幾十年。你的一部分在和你一起戰鬥，另一部分在和現在對你來說沒什麼意義的傳統戰鬥。所以十二月的能量在繼續鼓勵你去成為你自己。

Maybe you are concerned that your friendship pool has become so small you are not completely comfortable with new you. Even though you have become an independent human angel, you maintain the human trait of wishing to interact with others lovingly. Such is not necessarily true for all human angels. But for many of you, friendship has become a concern.
也許你在擔憂你的友誼池已經變得如此之小，你並不對新的你感到很舒適。即使你成為了一個自立的人類天使，你維持著希望有愛地與他人交互的人類特性。這並不一定適用於所有人類天使。但對於你們許多人，友誼已經成為一個擔憂。

You will create new interactions with those of like mind and discover new friends in the most unlikely places. But such information does not appease your current feelings of loneliness, of having to start over in the friendship realm.
你會和那些志同道合的人創造新的交互，在最意想不到的地方發現新的朋友。但這樣的話語無法安撫你當前的孤獨、想要在友誼領域重新開始的感受。

We assure you that your friendship or relationship concerns will be circumvented in the coming months. For 2020 was about discovering yourself outside the social milieu. But then, not everyone self-isolated. By continuing their life as it was, those individuals missed some of the freedoms you developed.
我們向你保證，你的友誼或人際關係擔憂會在未來幾個月被解決。因為2020是關於在社會環境之外發現你自己。但，不是每個人都是自我隔絕的。通過繼續他們之前的生活，那些人錯過了你所發展的一些自由。

That is not to say those not self-isolating are terrible people, merely that they were given a “get-out-of-jail-free” card they opted not to use. Does such a statement mean they are less spiritual than you? No, merely that they have opted for a more difficult road. Even though they helped create the en masse stop that was 2020, they did not take advantage of that stop.
這不是說那些並不自我隔絕的人是不好的，只是他們被給予了一張“出獄”卡牌但選擇不去使用。這是不是意味著他們沒有你靈性？不，只是他們選擇一條更加困難的道路。即使他們幫助創造了2020年的集體停頓，他們並沒有利用這個停頓。

So it is some of your friends, or former friends are at a different place than those of you utilizing this year of solitude. And because they are at a different place, you likely do not have as much in common. Which is neither good nor bad, just different. A difference that might be difficult for some time as you flit from one interest to another. A bit like deciding at age 12 you are not interested in playing with an 8-year-old. Once you and the 8- year-old are both in your 30s. that age difference will mean little. And so it might be for those who opted not to utilize this year of solitude. They will need to double-task for a bit to catch-up to your freedom base.
所以你的一些朋友或之前的朋友處於和你們那些利用這個獨處之年的人不一樣的位置。因為他們處於一個不同的位置，你們可能沒有什麼共同點。這既不好也不壞，只是不同。一個會在一段時間內感到艱難的不同，隨著你從一個興趣跳到另一個。有點像在12歲的時候你不想要和8歲的人玩耍。一旦你和8歲的人來到了你的30歲。年齡差異就沒什麼意義了。所以那些選擇不利用這個獨處之年的人也是這樣。他們會需要兩倍的任務來趕上你的自由基礎。

Those who did not take advantage of 2020 will expect you to be who you were, for they are mostly who they were when the year began. Such is neither good nor bad, just how they followed their path. For some of those who did not embrace this year of solitude, it was a badge of honor that they did not. Just as was true for those of you who did. So for much of 2021, it is unlikely you will have much in common.
那些並沒有利用2020年的人會期望你成為過去的那樣，因為他們大多都是今年開始時的那樣。這既不好也不壞，只是他們在跟隨自己的道路。對於那些並沒有擁抱這個獨處之年的人，這是一個光榮的事情。就像你們那些擁抱了的人這也是一個光榮的事情。所以在2021，你們也不大可能會有什麼共同之處。

That last statement is not written in stone, but instead an observation of probabilities. So it is you will likely mourn what was – just as you might have when you left your childhood interests behind. At the same time, you will look forward to the possibilities of your new life and forge new friendships.
上面的陳述並不是鐵板釘釘的，而是一個可能性的觀察。所以你可能會哀悼曾經的---就像在你拋棄孩童時期的興趣時會哀悼。與此同時，你會期待新生活的可能性並鍛造新的友誼。

That is not to say you will never interact with those friends who did not use this year of solitude to go within, but instead that it might take a bit of time for those friends to catch-up to you. Or you may never interact with them again, for, by the time they are at a similar place as you, you might have such different interests that your interactions are never the same.
這不是說你永遠不會和並不使用這個獨處之年去進入內在的朋友交互，而是可能需要一點時間讓那些朋友趕上你。或者你可能永遠不會再與他們交互，因為，當他們處於和你類似的位置，你可能擁有非常不同的興趣，你們的交互永遠不會再相同。

That last thought might seem depressing to many of you, for you value your friendships. But just as you are different, so are your interests and interactions. You are more confident in your being and your direction. So even if friends used this year of solitude similar to what was true for you, you still may be on such different paths as not to intersect again.
上面的想法對許多人來說可能令人沮喪，因為你重視你的友誼。但就像你不一樣了，你的興趣和交互也不一樣了。你在自己的存在和方向中更有信心。所以即使朋友和你一樣利用這個獨處之年，你們依舊可能會處於不同的道路，不會再交互。

Which is no different than many of those persons with whom you attended grammar school. In all likelihood, you now have little in common with them, for your 3D adult path was different than theirs. You have the commonality of your school, but not enough other commonalities to maintain more than a passing relationship. Such did not affect your 3D life, nor your transition. So it will be for you as you move through 2021 and beyond.
就像那些和你一起上中學的人。很有可能，你現在和他們沒什麼共同點，因為你的3D成人道路和他們的不一樣。你們擁有學校的共性，但沒有其它的共性來維持一個流逝的人際關係。這不會影響你的3D生活，以及轉變。所以隨著你通過2021以及之上也是一樣。

You have evolved beyond expectations – what was and who you were are no longer. So those who are not interested in similar areas or on a different time track may not hold great interest for you. But there will be others who help you sparkle with joy and laughter. You are entering a dramatic new phase of your being. A phase that has never happened en masse on the earth before.
你的進化已經超越預期---曾經的和你曾經的所是不再。所以那些對類似的領域不感興趣的人、或處於不同時間軌道的人可能不會對你有很大興趣。但會有其他人來幫助你伴隨著喜悅和歡笑閃耀。你正在進入存在的一個戲劇性的新階段。從未在地球上發生過的階段。

You are new. The earth is new. And your friendships will likely shift as a result. Allow that to be. And allow yourself to know that you will not be alone – if you flow into your new being, instead of stalling the inevitable to maintain friendships that no longer – and may never again – sparkle for you. So be it. Amen.
你是新的。地球也是新的。你的友誼因此也會轉變。允許。讓自己知道你不會孤身一人---如果你流入你的新存在，而不是拖延不可避免的，維持不再---可能再也不會---為你閃耀的人際關係。就是如此。

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/.../friendsh.../

傳導：Brenda Hoffman

翻譯：NickChan