慢思空間

Why Most Romantic Relationships Don’t Last ∞

The 9D Arcturian Council, Channeled by Daniel Scranton

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you. 
“問候。我們是大角星人委員會。我們很高興與大家聯繫。

We are giving ourselves everything that we need in order to be the best versions of ourselves for all of you and all of the other beings that we are helping in this universe of ours. We do not hold back when it comes to giving ourselves the love and compassion that we enjoy receiving so much from others. One of the greatest secrets that you are not taught in schools or in religions is that if you want others to treat you a certain way, then you must first treat yourselves the way that you want to be treated. 
我們正在為自己提供需要的一切，以便為你們所有人和我們在這個宇宙中幫助的所有其他生命成為最好的自己。我們毫不猶豫地給予自己、我們很享受從他人那裡得到的愛與同情。學校或宗教沒有教給你的最大秘密之一，如果你希望別人以某種方式對待你，那麼你必須首先以你希望別人對待你的方式對待自己。

This is the golden rule, part two that we are talking about. Yes, you want to treat others the way you would love to be treated, but you also have to treat yourself the way you want others to treat you. The universe is a gigantic mirror, and it always reveals to you what’s going on inside of you, rather than what you want the world to think or see. Whatever you want others to think and say about you, please think those thoughts and say those things to yourselves. Tell the universe, and show the universe, what you want to see reflected back to you from your fellow humans. 
這是黃金法則，我們正在談論的第二部分。是的，你想以希望別人對待你的方式對待別人，但你也必須以希望別人對待你的方式對待自己。宇宙是一面巨大的鏡子，它總是向你揭示內心正在發生的事情，而不是你想讓世界思考或看到的東西。無論你想讓別人怎麼想和怎麼說你，請自己想那些想法，對自己說那些話。告訴宇宙，向宇宙展示，你想從你的人類同胞那裡看到什麼。

You have so much more to give others when you first feel whole and complete in yourselves. This is the key reason why most relationships that are romantic in nature do not work out or do not last until death do you part. It is because at least one of the individuals in the relationship is looking to the other to give them something that they’ve never been able to give themselves. And at first, it is easy for the other person to do that, but eventually, they will get caught up in other aspects of life and forget to give their partner what the partner needs and wants. And that is usually when the relationship fizzles out. 
當你第一次感到自己的完整時，可以為他人提供更多。這就是為什麼大多數本質上浪漫的關係不會成功、或不會持續到直至死亡將你們分開的關鍵原因。這是因為關係中至少有一個人希望對方能給他們一些自己從未給過的東西。起初，對方很容易做到這一點，但最終，他們會陷入生活的其他方面，而忘記給予伴侶需要和想要的東西。這通常是關係破裂的時候。

But if you make the way you relate to yourself a priority, then there is no end to the amount of love, praise, and adoration you can receive from your fellow humans. This is something we would love to see being taught in your public school systems, but sadly, it is not even spoken about in the curriculum. And most of you have to wait until you are adults to realize what has been missing from your lives for decades. We are here to give you permission to give yourselves everything that you want and need from your fellow humans, and let everyone else off the hook, for now. Just trust that they will start to reflect to you that self-love that you will dedicate yourselves to from this point forward in your lives. 
但是，如果你把與自己相處的方式放在首位，那麼你可以從同胞那裡得到無窮無盡的愛、讚美與崇拜。 這是我們希望在你們的公立學校系統中教授的東西，但遺憾的是，它甚至沒有在課程中提及。你們中大多數人必須等到成年後才能意識到幾十年來生活中缺失的東西。我們在這裡是為了允許你從你們的人類同胞那裡得到想要和需要的一切，讓其他人暫時擺脫困境。相信他們會開始向你反映出自愛，從現在開始你將全身心投入到你的生活中。

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
我們是大角星委員會，我們很高興與你們聯繫。”

文章來源：https://danielscranton.com/

傳導：Daniel Scranton

翻譯：Amber