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加百利-如何與父母相處

2021年8月25日

We were recently asked, “Why is it my mother can trigger me so quickly and make me feel like I’m 14 again?” We would like to address this today.
我們最近被詢問道：“為什麼我的母親可以如此快速地觸發我，讓我感到自己像14歲一樣？”我們今天來談談。

Your parents, and you, came in with the exact energetics and traits required for you to find your preferred path of experience. Sometimes you parents guide you by showing you who to be. Sometimes they guide you by showing you who not to be. All of this is information for you to decide what your preferences are and who you really are.
你的父母，還有你，伴隨著讓你找到你偏愛的體驗道路所需的確切能量和特性來到地球。有時候父母通過展示你該成為什麼樣的人來指引你。有時候他們通過展示你不要成為什麼樣的人來指引你。這一切都是信息，讓你決定你的偏好是什麼，你真正是誰。

There is great love and a deeply respectful soul contract between you, which may have an overlay that feels somewhat triggering. This overlay is designed to help you want to launch your own path, and to continually drive you to find your own truth and your own way. It is what makes you want to ultimately launch into your own life expression.
你們之間有著巨大的愛和深度受敬重的靈魂契約，可能會有一個感覺起來被觸發的覆蓋。這個覆蓋被設計來幫助你踏上自己的道路，不斷地推動你去找到自己的真理和道路。這會讓你最終想要進入自己的生命表達。

You feel that challenging overlay strongest when you are teenagers. That is designed to prepare you to detach from the parents and want to venture out into your own individual life expression, usually around the age of 18. That is why when you get back around your parents you can feel like you regress to being a teen – you are responding to the peak of those energetics. When that particular energetic overlay is not present, you see adult children having never left home and failing to launch.
你在青少年時期會最強烈地感受那個挑戰性的覆蓋。它被設計來讓你為與父母的脫離做好準備，冒險進入個人的生命表達，通常在18歲左右。所以當你回到父母身邊，你感覺像變回了青少年---你在對那些能量的峰值起反應。當那個特定的能量覆蓋不存在，你可以看到成年子女從未離開家，沒有踏上自己的道路。

It is not uncommon to have one parent who is much easier to be around and another who is more triggering. This is by design to meet your various needs and was agreed to on a soul level.
一個家長比較好相處，另一個比較容易觸發你是很常見的。這被設計成這樣來滿足你的各種需求，是在靈魂層面上同意的。

Another thing that may be causing you discomfort is that your parents came from a different energetic time that you have already evolved beyond. What you may be rejecting is not your parents at all but rather the older energetics and belief systems that are not a match to you.
另一個可能會導致你不舒服的東西就是你的父母來自一個你已經進化超越的不同能量時代。你在拒絕的可能不是你的父母，而是並不匹配你的舊能量和信念。

So what is the key to being more comfortable with your parents? It is not necessarily about healing this because it is an energetic template that is meant to last in varying intensity throughout your days. It is about coming to acceptance that the overlay exists for a purpose, and that purpose is for you to find your own truth and your own way.
所以與自己的父母更加舒適地相處的關鍵是什麼？不一定是去療癒這個情況，因為這是一個能量模版，意在於在不同的強度中陪伴你一天。這是關於接納覆蓋的存在是有一個目標的，那個目標是讓你找到自己的真理和道路。

Just as you get uncomfortable in your own life when energies no longer match you and this occurs to get you to embrace change when it comes, so it is with these relationships. If you can honour the fact that there is underlying love, respect, and purpose beneath it all you can move from resistance to acceptance, which will make your time with those loved ones much easier. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
就像在能量不匹配你的時候你會變得不舒服，它的發生是讓你去擁抱改變，所以這些人際關係也是一樣。如果你可以榮耀這一切之下有著一個潛在的愛、尊重、目標，你可以從抗拒進入接納，這會讓你與那些心愛的人相處更加容易。

大天使加百利

2021年8月26日

Many of you put tremendous stress on yourselves to be perfect in your spiritual practices and beat yourselves up if you are not successful in that lofty goal. What we want you to understand is that every single time you find your way back to your truth and your alignment, you drive the shift for yourself and for your planet.
你們許多人對自己施加了很大的壓力去完美地進行你的修行，如果你無法實現那個崇高的目標就鞭笞自己。我們希望你明白的是每一次你返回自己的真理和對齊，你就為自己和地球推動了轉變。

It is normal to have moments of beautiful clarity and other moments where you forget what you know. Every single time you find your way Home to yourself  you send ripples across the universe and your highest self, along with your guides, helpers, and ancestors, wonder at your instincts and innate wisdom.
擁有美麗的明晰時刻以及忘記你知道的東西的時刻是正常的。每一次你找到回家，回歸自己的道路，你就把漣漪發送到宇宙中，你的最高自我，連同你的指導、助手、祖先，驚嘆於你的直覺和固有智慧。

So be easy on yourselves, Dear Ones. You are also beings of ebb and flow. Just as you can trust that the sun rises and sets every day, and the tide goes out and comes back in, understanding you will always find your way back to your truth will help you start to trust yourselves and your journey.
所以不要對自己太苛刻，親愛的。你也是起起伏伏的存在。就像你能夠相信太陽每天都會升起和落下，海洋會潮起潮落，明白你總是會找到返回真理的道路，會幫助你開始相信你自己和你的旅程。

And as you progress the need for extremes before you find your way back to yourself will become less and less, and you will remember to choose the light, over and again, not because you pressure yourself but simply because it is your preference and it brings you joy to redirect back into your true essence. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
隨著你進化，在你找到回歸自己的道路之前對極端的需求會變得越來越少，你會記得去選擇光，一次又一次，不是因為你給自己施加壓力，而是因為這是你的喜好，重新定向回你真正的本質會帶給你喜悅。

大天使加百利

2021年8月27日

There is much energetic shifting going on at this time. This is to give you an opportunity to get really clear about the essence of your desired creations.
此刻有著很多的能量轉變在發生。這給予了你一個機會去弄清楚你渴望之物的本質。

Imagine your purest desire is mixed in with all kinds of chunks of density. These chunks of density may come from old belief systems and experiences, or from the churned up energies of the collective. You have to extract your dream from what no longer serves you.
想像你最純粹的渴望是與各種密度的組塊融合。這些密度組塊可能來自舊的信念系統和體驗，或者來自攪拌在一起的集體能量。你必須從不再服務你的東西中提取你的夢想。

Prospectors will use various methods to separate the treasure from the worthless materials. They may use screens to agitate the dirt to reveal what has value, or they may use gold pans to swirl water over the sediment until they find the gold.
勘探者會使用各種方法把寶藏與無價值的東西分開。他們可能會使用玻璃去撥開泥土，揭示有價值的東西，或者可能會使用篩子，用水沖洗，直到他們找到黃金。

You are in the same process. You are filtering to find your treasure! Each pause and reflection on the way allows you to get clearer about what you wish to create until it is the purest reflection of your energies and the most valuable outcome for you. So if you are finding yourself feeling agitated by the energies, it may help to think of it as you and your dreams are becoming even more refined to give you the purest results that match your intentions. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
你處於相同的進程中。你在過濾，找到你的寶藏！每個暫停和沈思讓你更清楚你希望創造什麼，直到它是你能量最純粹的反射，最有價值的結果。所以如果你發現自己對能量感到焦躁不安，把它當作你的夢想在開始變得更加精煉來給予你匹配你意圖的最純粹結果會是有幫助的。

大天使加百利

文章來源：https://trinityesoterics.com/.../daily-message-wednesday.../

翻譯：NickChan